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How Do I Tell If My Husband is Cheating - 15 Things Cheating Husbands Do
Is my husband cheating? I don't want a cheating husband! Other husbands cheat, but not mine. If you think that, you are wrong. Did you know 50 to 70% of men cheat? Cheaters have the advantage, both trust and suspicion tend to work in their favor. This gives them the upper hand when it comes to getting away with what they are doing. There are many things you need to take into consideration when asking yourself the question, "How Do I Tell If My Husband Is Cheating?".
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There are ways to catch a cheating husband or catch a cheating wife that have been proven time and time again to work. This is also true for cheating boyfriends and cheating girlfriends. You can collect the evidence that will prove to you without a shadow of a doubt if your spouse is cheating.
So what's the catch?
You have to actually do it! You have to take action! You have to do what has to be done in order to get to the truth! You must act on your suspicions, and find out if your partner is cheating. If you already have doubts, and you don't do anything about it, it's like you are giving your spouse permission to continue having an affair.
Most people who never find out the truth, do so because they never take action or don't look at what is right in front of them!
They feel weak or inferior and don't have the self-esteem or strength to catch their partner cheating. So they will give up, feel sorry for themselves and continue being walk on like a old door mat. It can be tough for someone to face the fact that their spouse may be cheating, but you need to take on your cheating partner or lover and expose their filthy affair. You need to open your eyes and your mind to their lies and deceit. If your spouse is treating you in this manner, do you really want to be trapped in the relationship for the rest of your life? Don't you think you deserve to be happy?
Do you really truly want a healthy, happy and fulfilling life?
Do you want to start respecting yourself and be respected by your partner?
Do you want him or her to stop humiliating you and making you feel worthless?
Honestly, If your spouse cared about you, and had any respect for you or the relationship, he or she wouldn't be doing this.... would they?
Look, I know how you feel and I know what you are going through. I had a cheating spouse of my own to deal with!
I have been the door mat and it did not feel good.
I was afraid to learn the truth, even though I knew in my heart that my spouse was being unfaithful.
I could sense it.
I could feel it.
I could see that something was different.
I just didn't want to believe it!
I didn't want my life to be turned upside down.
I didn't want to have to start over after investing my life for so many years.
And you know what?
I made me feel horrible!
I felt like a nobody!
I was upset!
I worried day and night!
I didn't want to be touched by my partner!
I was in constant fear that he would contract and STD and pass it on to me!
I could not get it out of my mind... EVER!!!
Do You Want To Know The Worst Part?
I HAD EVIDENCE! I HAD PROOF!
I HAD NAMES, PHONE NUMBERS, AND ADDRESSES!
AND I DIDN'T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT BECAUSE I WAS AFRAID!
I was afraid of being alone. I was ashamed for letting this happen. I was embarrassed that it was happening. I didn't want other people to know how stupid I felt. The longer it went on, the more I thought I would be belittled by others. I was so afraid of what other people would be saying behind my back.. calling me stupid, blind, and weak.
Don't Be Afraid To Stand Up For Yourself!
I wish I would have went about things differently. I feel like so much of my life was wasted, and it was my own fault for doing nothing about it. I don't blame myself for my spouses cheating, and neither should you. The cheating partner needs to take responsibility for their actions. You did not make them do it. They fully made the decision on their own and they are to blame, and no one else. We all have the will power to say no. We know right from wrong. A cheating spouse knows what they are doing is wrong. If it wasn't wrong, it would not be done behind your back. I hope you understand that, and take action! The longer you procrastinate, the worse it will become.
NEVER come out and ask your spouse if they are cheating without any solid evidence to back it up.
They must be caught with concrete evidence that they can't lie their way out of!
Before you confront them, make sure you are holding the cards.
If you ask them but they know you may be bluffing or aren't quite sure, then it makes it easier for them to lie, and you won't know what to believe.
Once the cheating spouse thinks you are on to them, they will be more careful covering their tracks from now on, and this will make it almost impossible for you to gather hard evidence.
You will have just made your job twice as hard!
Know your facts 100% and have concrete proof before you make accusations.
Otherwise you can do more damage than good.
They say that cheaters have the advantage, both trust and suspicion tend to work in their favor.
This gives them the upper hand when it comes to getting away with what they are doing.